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March 2009

Mc Arabia and some

by witsandnuts on March 31, 2009

mc arabia

Since Mc Donald’s branches/franchise in UAE are not serving rice meals, I’m only frequenting it to coin Mc Sugoi Meal (my own version of combo of tuna salad from Mc Donald’s and California Makki from Sugoi). But now there’s another reason to patronize it. Mc Arabia Chicken saved the day.

Instead of being served with the usual Mc Donald’s bread, Mc Arabia comes in an Arabic flat bread. Which is thinner and softer (but more filling). There are two chicken patties and generous vegetable dressing inside it. These are lightly grilled that makes it more delicious than the normal chicken sandwich. No wonder it’s priced 50% more than the other burgers/sandwiches in Mc Donald’s.

grilled

The meal also comes with our old favorite french fries. I am not a fan of ketchup, I prefer salt with it or garlic mayonnaise whenever available. But after reading Mitch’s entry, I wanted to validate the ketchup theory. I knew that would be fun.

ketchup

You notice the number indicated in the lowest portion of ketchup? As shown above, I got numbers 10, 9 and 6. As the number is increased, the ketchup’s taste changes from sweet (number 1) to sour.

On the other hand, I was wrong in my prediction that the fruit bites they offer will be phased out soon. When I tried it last year, I was betting that the so-called fresh fruit bites packaged by Del Monte for Mc Donald’s won’t be marketable. Well, it’s not just a hype. But it surprised me that there are those who prefer to pay for this junk food to buying real fresh fruits which are readily available in the supermarkets.

mc do fruit bites

And if you’re a Filipino, I’m sure the “Love Ko ‘To” print on the paper bag and cups would make you smile.

love ko 'to

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Quarter-life crisis

by witsandnuts on March 30, 2009

After reading a younger friend’s entry on quarter-life crisis, I remembered this email forwarded to me several years ago.

They call it the “quarter-life crisis.” It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn’t know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren’t exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don’t recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren’t really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but they are as confused as you.

You look at your job… and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn’t. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure, you laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can’t meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren’t a bad person.

One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like and idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself… and while winning the race would be great, right now you’d just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

Through the years, I learned that quarter life crisis is a state of mind. There are things that are inevitably occurring and changes are constant. We have no control over these, but we can choose how to counter and react towards them. WE ALL GO THROUGH THIS. Enjoy the best and worst times that life has to offer. :)

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It feels very Manila

by witsandnuts on March 29, 2009

It rained a little last Friday. And since last night it is continuously raining. With occasional thunderstorms, huh. As much as I find this strange, no doubt I’m enjoying the breeze and sound of raindrops. I’m actually nostalgic at the moment. I remember being home.

On a rainy weekend at home, we would have tuyo (dried fish) and sinangag (fried rice) with suka (vinegar) from Balian or Ilocos. I would consume two plates of sinangag, would eat with my hands, and would be thinking of watching an old flick or tuning in to weather updates delivered by the local networks. While a rainy day at work would mean I and my friends would be battling our way to go/meet up in Tsoko.nut in RCBC Plaza (or some fancy café) to sip batirol and munch on suman or tablea cake while chatting about anything and everything. And on our way back to the office, we would tip toe on the waters, share the umbrellas, laugh out, unmindful of the discomfort brought by the weather. Even if it’s impossible, we would chant, “I wish the working hours would be shortened, shortened, shortened….”

But I’m here.

Although I love the rain, this feeling makes me want to say, “Rain, rain, go away. Homesickness, come again another day.”

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My two newest tees

by witsandnuts on March 29, 2009

Mary's Meals Tees

Proceeds will fund Mary’s Meals (feeding program) of St. Joseph Church. Not just for food, but I absolutely agree that the world is hungry.

Mary's Meals 3

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Is the party over?

by witsandnuts on March 26, 2009

While (the rich in oil) Abu Dhabi is the capital of UAE, Dubai has been more known among the emirates and in entire Middle East. It is because of its aggressive structures and openness to embrace innovations. This is probably the right thing to do since they had no oil source, risk appetite considered. This liberty did boost the tourism and other businesses and attracted a lot of visitors. Currently, 80% of its population is comprised of expatriates.

With Dubai’s boom and (just in time with) its sudden fall due to illiquidity to sustain its projects, its Executive Council has recently issued a formal Code of Conduct (in particular, list of prohibited behavior in public). As I read each point, I was not surprised at all. These are, but, reiterations. Before coming to UAE, I prepared myself for a big adjustment. To my relief, it was not a 180-degree turn. Except for limited source of pork and non-serving of dishes with pork in the restaurants, hotels and other establishments, everything else are fine especially the freedom to practice our faith and relaxed dress code.

We got to wear very Manila. I remember when I joined the Kapampangan Tour last December. One of the things which Anton asked me was if women (expats) are required to wear abaya (traditionally a black garment that covers the whole body except the face, feet and hands). No, not at all. With my more than a year stay here, I’ve willingly understood the restrictions especially for the women. My interaction with Arab colleagues, that includes reading some parts of Quoran (not required, I just wanted to), helped me to know where they are coming from.

It’s understandable though that a lot of expatriates are reacting to the newly issued rules by the Executive Council of Dubai. To quote verbatim, here are some. The bold fonts are mine.

(a) Alcohol consumption shall be confined to designated areas (i.e. licensed restaurants and venues that serve alcohol to their clients). Being caught under the effect of alcohol outside these places (even in light doses) can lead to a fine or incarceration.

(b) Buying and selling alcohol is controlled by very strict laws. Alcohol is exclusively sold by specialized licensed stores. It can only be bought by holders of an alcohol-purchasing license (this license is only attainable by non-Muslims). Buyers shall respect the local culture by carrying their alcohol in paper bags such that it cannot be seen.

(c) Photos of people – and especially photos of women and families – in public places shall not be taken without their permission. Taking photos of people is a sensitive issue in Dubai’s local culture.

(d) Begging is forbidden in all parts of Dubai.

(e) Dogs are forbidden in parks and beaches.

(f) Muslims pray five times a day. Each prayer is announced from the mosques by a call to prayer. When the call to prayer is heard, music shall be turned off in all public places and cars, and Muslims shall be allowed to perform their prayer duty.

(g) During the month of Ramadan, Muslims fast from dawn to sunset. Throughout this month, eating, drinking or smoking in public spaces during daylight is considered a public offense and is punishable by law.

I can see your reaction as you read those. But the most talked about portions are these:

(h) In other public places such as streets, shopping malls and restaurants, shorts and skirts shall be of appropriate length. Moreover, clothing shall not indecently expose parts of the body, be transparent, or display obscene or offensive pictures and slogans.

(i) Beachgoers – men and women – shall wear conservative swimwear that is acceptable to Dubai’s culture. Swimwear shall not be worn outside the beach, as decent dress is the rule in rest of the city. Nudity is strictly forbidden in every part of the city and is liable to be punished by imprisonment or deportation.

(j) Displays of affection among couples – whether married or not – in public places does not fit the local customs and culture. Holding hands for a married couple is tolerated but kissing and petting are considered an offense to public decency.

Public displays of affection, as well as sexual harassment or randomly addressing women in public places is liable to be punished by imprisonment or deportation.

(k) Loud music and dancing are forbidden in public places like parks, beaches or residential areas and must be restricted to licensed venues only.

What brought these? One report says that a series of incidents, including crackdowns on cross dressers and the expulsion of two British expats found guilty of having sex on the beach, has thrown the clash of local and foreign cultures in the limelight. Probably, this is one of the things that made the red flags glaring.

I’ve heard several reactions from locals and non-locals. Here are two examples that will show how wide the (reconcileable) gap is. Derived from separate conversations:

From a local: My 5-year old daughter is very much embarrassed whenever she sees women at the mall showing their arms and legs. “Mama, aren’t they shy to expose their bodies?”

From a friend who’s vacationing in Dubai this April (I forwarded to him the copy of the Code of Conduct): Ano???? Bawal ang holding hands kapag hindi pa kasal? Kalokohan ‘to. Ipapacancel ko na yung flight ko.

It is pretty challenging to find the balance between traditions and practicality. By simply saying, “When in Rome, do what the Romans do” is hardly applicable. Let’s see if Abu Dhabi’s and other emirates’ executive councils will issue a similar code. As long as blogging is allowed, I’m fine. :)

What are your thoughts?

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