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I got tagged by Kayni.

The Rules:

1. Pick up the nearest book of 123 pages or more. No cheating!
2. Find page 123.
3. Find the first five sentences.
4. Post the next three sentences.
5. Tag as many people you want.

Book: A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle.

The ego doesn’t know that the more you include others, the more smoothly things flow and the more easily things come to you.  When you give little or no help to you because you have cut yourself off from the whole.  The ego’s unconscious core feeling of “not enough” causes it to react to someone else’s  success as if that success had taken something away from “me”.

I’m tagging Lorraine, BlogusVox, Rhea, Em, Wani and Nica.

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jane austen collage

Many of us are long been planning to read Jane Austen’s classic novels, but at some point we couldn’t sustain the kick of browsing through it. Or probably you’ve read and/or saw any of the books/films already, but would like to revive the Austen feel. With these, we’re starting our own version of The Jane Austen Book Club. But from what’s told in the film or in the book, we’ll have a few refinement and we’ll do the following:

  • We’ll be reading the same title each month
  • We’ll write about the novel of the month in our own sites and specifically mention about our favorite chapter, scene, quote or anything that struck us most
  • Link back the first Jane Austen-related novel post to this announcement and submit the link to your entry through the comment section
  • All the posts/links will be summarized monthly and we can have our sort of Q & A for that
  • Anyone may participate in the monthly virtual meet up
  • I’m dedicating a page for the book club to include the schedule of novels to be read + the screenshot of the primary website (header) of the members.  It will be updated accordingly, i.e. when there’s a new joiner, etc.  Click here to see the page.
  • Contests will be held after we’re done with the 4th and 8th (final) novels. 

Jane (yeah, that’s you!), are you ready?  We’re reading Persuasion for the month of August.  You may submit your entries until midnight of August 31, 2008 pacific time.  The rounds up/ virtual meet will be the next day.

Jane Austen e-books can be downloaded here.

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einstein's dreams

It took me some time to find a copy of this book. I checked the bookstores in the Philippines since last year and found none, and even from bookstores in Dubai and Abu Dhabi, no success. Until a staff from Magrudy’s offered to order it online for no extra charge, I exclaimed Eureka. For that one reason + other things, Magrudy’s is now my favorite bookstore in UAE.

Einstein’s Dreams is a novel by Alan Lightman. In this modern classic, a fictional collage of stories dreamed by Albert Einstein was narrated. He was working then in a patent office in Switzerland.

Between April 14, 1904 to June 28, 1905, while drafting his theory of relativity, Einstein dreamed of many possible worlds:

  • Suppose time is a circle, bending back on itself.  The world repeats itself, precisely, endlessly.
  • Wherein time is like a flow of water, occasionally displaced by a bit of debris, a passing breeze.
  • Time has three dimensions, like space.  Such people are content to live in contradictory worlds, so long as they know the reason for each.
  • A mechanical and body time.

Where the two times meet, desperation.  Where the two times go their separate ways, contentment.  For, miraculously, a barister, a nurse, a baker can make a world in either time.  but not in both times.  Each time is true, but the truths are not the same.

  • Where future and past are entwined.

It is a world of impulse.  It is a world of sincerity.  It is a world in which every word spoken speaks just to that moment, every glance given has only one meaning, each touch has no past or no future, each kiss is a kiss of immediacy.

  • A world where time passes, but little happens.

If time and the passage of events are the same, then time moves barely at all.  If time and events are not the same, then it is only people who barely move.  If a person hold no ambition in this world, he suffers unknowingly.  If a person holds ambition, he suffers knowingly but very slowly.

  • A time where no one is happy, whether stuck in a time of pain or of joy.
  • A place where time stands still.
  • A world without memory is the world of the present.
  • A world in which people live only one day.  In either case, a man or woman sees one sunrise, one sunset.
  • A world where time is a sense.
  • Suppose people live forever.  Over time, some have determined that the only way to live is to die.
  • Suppose that time is not a quantity but quality.
  • A world where time is a local phenomenon.

This book is brilliant.  At first glance it may appear like a fast read.  But you have to think that you are actually in ‘each world’ (each chapter) to be more captivated and delighted.  It is supposedly about metaphysics.  But it turned out to be a romantic and oh so-poetic novel.  Weird, but I can see myself re-reading it soon.  That’s how much I did like it.

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black and white forest

My 2008 birthday cake, black and white forest

It’s normal when I get birthday greetings as early as 1st of July. Advance and belated greetings traditionally become alike, since some are saying ‘belated’ when it’s actually still a week before the exact date. I don’t mind the gap though as long as it’s within the timeline. :) And I shall not be surprised as I get greetings on the 17th of August, that’s exactly a month after the correct date. On the other hand, I have friends who don’t observe birthdays due to religious reasons But mind you, they have their means of remembering it.

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So I had my first birthday celebration away from the Philippines. Away from so many people and stuff that I am used to. Incidentally, I had crazy muscle pains. What a timing. Maybe the improper sitting /posture and other unhealthy habits accumulated and wanted to scream, err, greet me. Salonpas patches eased it for a while.

I invited at least 15 people – from the office and old and new friends off-work to celebrate with me over lunch at home. It was a simple yet fun-filled as we feasted on Filipino food: pansit sotanghon (for long life!), kare-kare, tokwa’t baboy in tausi, lumpiang sariwa, lemon-marinated fried chicken, grilled pork barbecue, fruit salad and cake for dessert. I had the black and white forest cake from Mr. Baker (the best cakehouse around but I miss Red Ribbon and Goldilocks!) instead of the intended ice cream cake from Baskin Robbins. I didn’t know it’s generally closed during Fridays, which is prayer day in the Gulf (opens at 2pm which is way late for my celebration).  Incidentally, a couple of guests brought three flavors of London Dairy.

In between the chit chats were funny antics as we watched telenovela (not on purpose, but was airing then) and TV Patrol via TFC. It felt real good to being gathered with Filipinos especially when we were real time watching the news back home: politics, showbiz, etc.

Many thanks for the greetings back home and elsewhere. It’s heartwarming to be remembered especially that I’m away, nostalgic, ey? To those who celebrated with me, many thanks. And of course, thank you for the presents. Lovely flowers (love the colors), sweets (yay), a mind-boggling book (I’m excited to read, I’m reminded of my book queue), and perfumes (I’m thinking that they thought I fancy perfumes, I got three. Interesting scents!). But more than these, I thank you all for the gift of time. :)

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I sometimes judge a book by its cover, and it was one of the cases. But this time, I judged this one by its title. Interesting enough, my initial thought was why would a monk, or if not a monk, why would somebody sell his ferrari?

The Monk who Sold his ferrari is a story of very brilliant lawyer, Julian Mantle, who seemed to have everything in life, but had lived an almost empty life. While he was at court room, he had a heart attack and that changed his life.  After he recovered, he sold all his prized possessions including his red ferrari and went to the mountains of Himalayas and lived with the monks, and eventually became one of them. After a few years, he returned to the city and paid a visit to his only friend, John, who was once his junior at the law firm and is now at the apex of his career.

Truly enlightened people never seek to be like others.  Rather, they seek to be superior to their former selves.  Don’t race against others.  Race against yourself.

In this tale, he shared the wisdom and the reasons for the total transformation that he had – the drastic change in his physique, the way he sees the world, and many other eastern views coupled by western principles, which were mentored by the head monk in Himalayas. If you have read the book or watch the film, The Secret, you would notice similarities in some school of thoughts. What makes this book different from that one and other self-help books is the way it was presented. It appeared not authorly narrated but as told by the other person (the friend of the lawyer who turned monk).

Maybe it is because of my too much familiarization with some realizations that I already encountered in other books or articles, that made me felt bored in few pages. But in general, this book would make you feel as if you are realizing those words of wisdom for the first time. The turning point for me was the mention of improving one’s health and attaining better longevity by being a vegetarian. I never had to be influenced by this but admittedly, as I relate all the points in each chapter, I am psychologically in love with idea of being vegetarian since then. For the past two days I almost can’t choke on the meat I used to enjoy taking in.

Live foods are the answer.  Those that are created through the natural interaction of the sun, air, soil and water.  So if you like meat, you can certainly keep eating it.  Just remember that you are ingesting dead food.

What about friendships?  This is so striking:

And speaking of friendships, make sure you keep them in constant repair.  A person with three solid friends is very wealthy indeed.

Another important mention that I liked is about time management. This book has superbly explained (and let me instilled) how to see, get away and accept the time that we have.

I once heard my father say that it was the busiest people who have time to spare.  Busy, productive people are highly efficient with their time – they must be in order to survive.  Being an excellent time manager doesn’t mean that you must be workaholic.  On the contrary, time mastery allows you more time to do the things you love to do, the things that are truly meaningful to you.  Time mastery leads to life mystery.  Guard time well.  Guard time well.  Remember it is a non-renewable resource.

And what about the time thieves?  I think some of us are thieves or otherwise:

Don’t let others steal your time.  Be wary of time thieves.  These are the people who always call on the telephone just as you have to put the kids to sleep and have settled into your favorite chair to read that thrilling novel you have heard so much about.  These are the people who have a knack of dropping by your office just as you have found a few minutes in the midst of a hectic day to catch your breath and collect your thoughts.

Therefore, we must be ruthless of our time.  We must learn to say “no”.  It is there for your convenience, not of the convenience of the others. Also, the mention about reading books was simply written but greatly affected me.

But remember, some books are meant to be tasted, some books are meant to be chewed and, finally, some books are meant to be swallowed whole.

Futher,

It’s not what you will get out of the books that is so enriching – it is what the books will get out of you that will ultimately change your life.  You see, John, books do not actually teach you anything new.  Books simply help you to see what is already within yourself.  That’s what enlightenment is all about.

Those are among the new/ strong points that I greatly appreciated from this book. But if you haven’t read The Secret and other self-help books yet, this is a book that will surely bless your life. The timeless wisdom on abundance and joy, greater courage and balance are intelligently shared in this story.

I am glad that when I chanced on this book on March 8, 2008, I did not judge the book only by its cover, but by its title.

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