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This morning I submitted this to thisiswhyyourefat.com.

What are you giving up for Lent?

I don’t mean to sound preachy. I just thought of sharing the jist of the few articles about fasting that I read recently. After all, I’m one of those who are guilty of finding a perfect opportunity to trim weight during the Lent through fasting. Some of us give up meat, sweets, and other stuff that seem to be a hard habit to break, in order to fast.  But why do we really fast?

Fasting is about abstaining from food for spiritual reasons. A hunger strike done by some groups even for a good cause and diet programs are not a fast because they are for vanity and/or other reasons.  We should fast:

  • So that our hearts will focus on God alone. In fasting, it is important to know why we are doing it. If there is no purpose, the practice is meaningless. As we fast, the motivation, sincerity and determination intensifies.
  • So that what controls us is revealed to us. We discover that it is not food that sustains our lives;
  • To uncover what is not essential to us. Our desires are often reckless, and they take over our lives. We crave for many things that we actually don’t need. By fasting, we feel the degree of control they have on us and we gain the opportunity to overcome them. The harder it is to fast, the stronger our desires grip us. But the more we fast, the faster we become free from them.

Isn’t it wonderful when we really know and appreciate why we’re doing something?

Related readings:

*Why we put ashes on our forehead

*Related points on fasting

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Here’s my version of chocolates and flowers. When you detach the flower, there’s actually an edible chocolate inside.

When I was still a student, I remember drawing a group of people with connected sticks pattern when I’m too bored during a class. I even put speech bubble for each person.

And because I am, at times, too stressed with work, I do take a breather and do almost the same as before. This time, by playing with the chocolates. Don’t tell my boss. It’s just a minute, anyway.

Why play with chocolates (aside from eating it)? Because it’s a ready reminder to me that life is too sweet and beautiful to complain about small stuff.

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Continued from First Abu-versary.

I am sharing an old entry which I wrote exactly two years ago. I was months old as a blogger that time. Thanks to blogging that I was able to document some of my sentiments in that particular hour (less than 24 hours before I took off to Abu Dhabi), when I have not yet virtually met most of you. However, I had to refresh my memory to understand why I titled it “Ahn nyung hee ke se yo” which means farewell in Korean wherein I was going to UAE.

Ahn nyung hee ke se yo
27 January 2008

I am taking the littlest break from my last minute preps to blog. Every minute counts and I got only an hour sleep the past couple of days. I only have less than 24 hours and there are still loose ends. I can not really be a superwoman.

This is sooner than expected. The dusting of my personal stuff went several stages. I could not let go of so many things. It was hard sorting them as precious versus less precious… rather, “must bring” versus “give it away” and “till we meet again” stuff. This also let me realize that I accumulated so much junk in the past. Those that I bought in impulse, but I enjoyed that time, and those that I should not have bought in the first place. The dusting also reintroduced me to those that I never thought I have.

I have no unmet craving this minute and that feels good.

As always, everyone who leaves work will have unfinished business – not that he did not turn over loads, but the feeling that you wanted to help and still be there, but can not anymore simply because you now have to go.

I was reporting for work till midnight yesterday. Hence, the meet ups and send offs happened in squeeze. All worthwhile. I am restricting myself to look at the many photos we/ I captured lately to shoo the nostalgia. Most of them are the busiest people in the land and they took time to see me. They really made a means when it became so impossible to meet up. Despedida at 7am, lunch, dinner, midnight to 3am… , and those that I begged off (sorry, if only I can be in one place at a time) due to errands and all that took time to make surprises, catching you at work and at home unexpectedly. I will leave to your imagination how little sleep I had lately.

Preps were stressful. But the meet ups, bonding and rekindling outweighed everything. To those that I didn’t get to see no matter how they tried and vice versa, we owe each other big time! Hehe. We will see each other again.

It has been two years since then. But after reading this, I was timewarped (again). Who would have thought that I’d have my Abu-versaries? What they say is very true: just enjoy the ride and live the life wherever you are.

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Siblings enjoying and trying to explore the other side.

At the background is Emirates Palace.

Their mother saw them.

Little brother got a number of spanking.

If I am their mother, I will probably not spank li’l bro but explain to him the dangers of imbalance. That is by telling him a story that he can appreciate. I will do the same for the elder sister. If there is anyone who deserves spanking, it is the sister whose shoes are a little heeled. She is supposed to be more responsible.

It happens everywhere: the child gets spanked for improperly holding a glass that he broke it, a two-year old gets spanked so that he will stop crying because he feels discomfort due to different reasons, etc. At the end of the day, the parents are responsible for their innocent children’s actions.

If I am the husband, I will spank the mother because she committed a big mistake. She went out of the house without any footwear. Just kidding. I know that you know what I mean.

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If you have to choose between buying something or spending the money on a memorable experience, go with the experience.

According to a study conducted at San Francisco State University, the things you own can’t make you as happy as the things you do. One reason is adaptation: we adapt to all things material in our lives in a matter of weeks, no matter how infatuated we were with the coveted possession the day we got it. Another reason is that experience, unlike possession, generally involves other people, and fosters or strengthens relationships that are more edifying over time than owning something.

This supports my preference for travelling next to basic necessities and other things. What about you?

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